.... And David Deida.
I want to create a frame for her of a feminine frame, I then want to take the masculine frame.
FRAME HER INTO FEMININE. Think of ways to frame her into feminine after I open and create attraction.
If you knew that you would be dead in 3 days, what would you want to accomplish?
Ground my masculine frame and make it deep.
Create a masculine goal and change emotions in her while leading towards the goal.
Don’t ask questions. Instead lead, the frames are fluid as well.
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Notes on David Deida. Part 1
Current Society = Neutrality between masculine and feminine
Masculine and feminine make up the poles for sexual polarity.
1st Stage of Masculine – Macho Jerks (Feminine = Housewives) Rigidness
2nd Stage of Masculine – Free Spirits (Feminine = More dominant) Neutrality
3rd Stage of Masculine – Neutrality to choose and acknowledge when to use it from both parts.
Masculine Mastery balance is master of the 2 polar opposites.
Sexual Polarity is created between the 2 polar opposites.
1st stage – Selfish
2nd stage – Making the world better
3rd stage – Transcends a lifetime S
uperficial Desires – If you live on the basis of superficial desires then you start living by feelings, such as fears. Such as fears of not making enough money, not finding someone to love, being alone, etc...
Live instead, on your deepest love. Your deepest purpose. Stop doing, start feeling.
As you feel the source of every thought, it creates an impulse.
Follow the impulses that are created in solitude.
What would you need to become before you die, so that you can die complete?
Set up my life so that I may earn a living and die complete.
Give and let go. It doesn’t matter what happens You give an let go. Love, passion, emotion. Do not get attached.
Getting attached is feminine, and maintaining rigidness is masculine, that is the balance of both. Give and forget.
How do you stay on track?
Trusting your own mind and body is a mistake.
Growing from dependence to independence, (moving from 2nd to 3rd stage)
If I keep changing my mind, without accomplishing the goal, it creates distrust.
Ground my masculine to create trust. Am I willing to constantly feel the feminine without hoping to end anything?
Feminine is always changing, the mind is always changing, it will never stop. So defining a point to focus on is impossible with the feminine. (Hence the dancing butterfly)
Masculine is the rigidness to stay focused, and embrace the feminine and love it while staying focused. (Hence lead with the masculine goal in mind, and use some chick crack interspersed.)
Do not voice that in with has been sourced in the feminine, instead my goals should be rooted in the masculine.
Feel motivation. Motivation is the purpose.
When a woman is in the feminine her mind changes, feminine emotions change.
Don’t bother to ask “What are you feeling?” Questions change the flow of feminine frame.
Instead just go with the flow.
Masculine grows through challenge and criticism.Feminine grows through praise.
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