Thursday, February 28, 2008
No Scrubs
No Scrubs
A scrub is a guy that thinks he's fly
And is also known as a buster (busta, busta...)
Always talkin' about what he wants
And just sits on his broke ass
So (no)
I don't want your number (no)
I don't want to give you mine and (no)
I don't want to meet you nowhere (no)
I don't want none of your time and (no)
Chorus:
I don't want no scrub
A scrub is a guy that can't get no love from me
Hanging out the passenger side
Of his best friend's ride
Trying to holler at me
I don't want no scrub
A scrub is a guy that can't get no love from me
Hanging out the passenger side
Of his best friend's ride
Trying to holler at me
There's a scrub checkin' me
But his game is kinda weak
And i know that he cannot approach me
Cuz i'm lookin' like class and he's lookin' like trash
Can't get wit' no deadbeat ass
So (no) (yea, yea)
I don't want your number (no)
I don't want to give you mine and (no)
I don't want to meet you nowhere (no)
I don't want none of your time (no)
Chorus
If you don't have a car and you're walking
Oh yes son i'm talking to you
If you live at home wit' your momma
Oh yes son i'm talking to you (baby)
If you have a shorty that you don't show love
Oh yes son i'm talking to you (yea yea yea yea...)
Wanna get with me with no money
Oh no i don't want no (oh)
No scrub (no scrub, no love)
No scrub (no no) (no scrub, no love)
No scrub (no no no no no)
No scrub (no no)
No
Chorus
Chorus
Left eye:
See, if you can't spatially expand my horizon
Then that leaves you in a class with scrubs never risin'
I don't find it surprisin'
If you don't have the g's
To please me and bounce from here to the coast of overseas
So, let me give you somethin' to think about
Inundate your mind with intentions to turn you out
Can't forget the focus on the picture in front of me
You as clear as dvd on digital tv screen
Satisfy my appetite with something spectacular
Check your vernacular
And then i get back to ya
With diamond like precision
Insatiable is what i envision
Can't detect acquisition
From your friend's expedition
Mr. big willy if you really wanna know
Ask chilli, could i be a silly ho
Not really, t-boz and all my senoritas
Is steppin' on your filas
But you don't hear me though
Chorus
Chorus
Thursday, February 21, 2008
KKK <3's Obama!?
KENTUCKY - USA - Imperial Wizard, Ronald Edwards has stated that, "anything is better than Hillary Clinton."
White Christian Supremacist group the Ku Klux Klan has endorsed Barack Obama to be the next President of the United States of America.
Speaking from his Kentucky office in Dawson Springs, the Imperial Wizard exclaimed that anything or anyone is better than having that "crazy ass bitch" as President.
This is the first time in Klan history that any member of the KKK has ever publicly supported an African American candidate for the presidency.
KKK lodges all over America have been gathering and holding rallies supporting the black presidential candidate.
Grand Turk Cletus Monroe has also been very vocal about the election and has donated thousands of dollars to Obama's election fund.
"The boy's gonna do it. My Klan group has donated up to $250,000 to the Obama fund. Anything is better than Hillary Clinton. Hell I'll even adopt a black kid from Africa before I vote for Hillary."
"A few years back we were lynching negroes. Now we're gonna vote for one to be president of the US of motherfu**ing A, damn it! Anyone or anything is better than Hillary Clinton - anything!!"
Placards for Barack Obama have been put up around the Klan's Headquarters and the KKK have announced a television ad campaign to support the African American candidate.
Tuesday, February 19, 2008
Notes of Game ..
I want to create a frame for her of a feminine frame, I then want to take the masculine frame.
FRAME HER INTO FEMININE. Think of ways to frame her into feminine after I open and create attraction.
If you knew that you would be dead in 3 days, what would you want to accomplish?
Ground my masculine frame and make it deep.
Create a masculine goal and change emotions in her while leading towards the goal.
Don’t ask questions. Instead lead, the frames are fluid as well.
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Notes on David Deida. Part 1
Current Society = Neutrality between masculine and feminine
Masculine and feminine make up the poles for sexual polarity.
1st Stage of Masculine – Macho Jerks (Feminine = Housewives) Rigidness
2nd Stage of Masculine – Free Spirits (Feminine = More dominant) Neutrality
3rd Stage of Masculine – Neutrality to choose and acknowledge when to use it from both parts.
Masculine Mastery balance is master of the 2 polar opposites.
Sexual Polarity is created between the 2 polar opposites.
1st stage – Selfish
2nd stage – Making the world better
3rd stage – Transcends a lifetime S
uperficial Desires – If you live on the basis of superficial desires then you start living by feelings, such as fears. Such as fears of not making enough money, not finding someone to love, being alone, etc...
Live instead, on your deepest love. Your deepest purpose. Stop doing, start feeling.
As you feel the source of every thought, it creates an impulse.
Follow the impulses that are created in solitude.
What would you need to become before you die, so that you can die complete?
Set up my life so that I may earn a living and die complete.
Give and let go. It doesn’t matter what happens You give an let go. Love, passion, emotion. Do not get attached.
Getting attached is feminine, and maintaining rigidness is masculine, that is the balance of both. Give and forget.
How do you stay on track?
Trusting your own mind and body is a mistake.
Growing from dependence to independence, (moving from 2nd to 3rd stage)
If I keep changing my mind, without accomplishing the goal, it creates distrust.
Ground my masculine to create trust. Am I willing to constantly feel the feminine without hoping to end anything?
Feminine is always changing, the mind is always changing, it will never stop. So defining a point to focus on is impossible with the feminine. (Hence the dancing butterfly)
Masculine is the rigidness to stay focused, and embrace the feminine and love it while staying focused. (Hence lead with the masculine goal in mind, and use some chick crack interspersed.)
Do not voice that in with has been sourced in the feminine, instead my goals should be rooted in the masculine.
Feel motivation. Motivation is the purpose.
When a woman is in the feminine her mind changes, feminine emotions change.
Don’t bother to ask “What are you feeling?” Questions change the flow of feminine frame.
Instead just go with the flow.
Masculine grows through challenge and criticism.Feminine grows through praise.
Friday, February 15, 2008
FR: VDay Blowout
I open with "Happy Valentines".... Yay!
I ask them if cupid missed them too. HBred was a little reluctant to open. But she eventually did.
All in all I think this was one of the most boring sets I have ever been in.
Fenix winged and kept them going, if it wern't for him I'd surely have just said fuck it, (excellent job mate) and Vector and his company pulled back-up duty.
I really was bored out of my mind in this one.
Myspace closed the target, and #closed the OB.
We'll see what happens, altough I don't think it'll be much. I'm not really interested in HBred. She doesn't like sports (e.g. football) and that's a big turnoff for me.
Thursday, February 14, 2008
Text Battle
I wanted to share a text battle I had with a girl just a moment ago.
Me: (I used GS's V-day closing from the Austin Society) Happy unimaginative, consumerist, entirely arbitrary, manipulative and shallow interpretation of a romance day!
Her: Ooh. Someone is a little bitter about St. Valentines day. Do you not have a date or something? It's alright, you're still hot!
Me: Where's your date missy?
Her: Haha I broke up with the guy I was seeing about a week ago. it happens, I should have planned it better.
Me: Haha u should have. Ill tell you what. Ill pick u up and I promise ull have the worst vday ever. Ill even let you buy dinner. Sound like fun?
Her: Greaaaaaat. Love it
Me: Great. Pick you up at 8 then.
Her: Hahaha. Nah. I'm high maintenence.
Me: Awesome! Then you can look at yourself in the mirror as im hittin it from behind. Haha
Her: Ha! Youre not endearing yourself to me. I'm actually going to go out with some girlfriends I think.
Me: Way to waste all this awesome flirting we've had going on here.
Her: Haha Well I don't know. High maintence girls just like being chased I guess.
Me: What are you talking about?
Her: I'm just teasing you.
Me: If youre gonna tease me... U have to follow through. And I dont think you have it in you.
Her: I doubt I would fuck you if that's what youre saying. I don't see you putting in the kind of effort it would take. I don't do one night stands No matter hot the guy.
Me: Whoa! Slow down pumkin. I need comfort and trust before I can do that.
Her:Lol you're cute.
Me: Thanks.
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Questions, comments, critique. Thanks.
Monday, February 11, 2008
Framing
El Topo's post on Frames.
http://the-red-mole.blogspot.com/2007/11/frames.html
I've been following ET and CJ's takes on frames more recently.
FRAMES are CRUCIAL to any PUA's game. Any PUA who can master frames and frame games and such, has a very good chance of blowing the door wide open when it comes to their limits in game.
I've noticed, frames are used everyday, in every conversation, glance, and look. Every body position tells a story and anything that a person does sets a frame. I am curious..... Is there a way to set an "approachable" frame. Like if a girl is extremely attracted to you, and she's giving you the "fuck me" eyes, can you frame her, from a distance to approach you instead using body language and eye contact? Is this why some guys seem "more approachable" than others?
Also, I'm curious about how far the frame should go when dealing with the cockblocks. Where exactly is that line that you must draw in order for you to successfully bounce or "steal" your target, when using frames?
A list of the frames I have observed over the past 2 days:
Teacher frame
Customer frame
Employee frame
Seducer frame
Seducee frame
Party guy frame
Caring guy frame
Friend frame
Attraction frame (including here, sexual attraction, friendship attraction, aquintance attraction)
- Going into more detail about these frames, they go in stages, Aquintance first, meaning that they like you enough to continue to talk to you for a little but not enough to give the number, friendship attraction frame means you arent going sexual with your attraction material, and the sexual attraction frame means you are.)
Authority frame
Subordinate frame
Playful submissive frame
Playful dominent frame
Each frame can actually have multiple frames inlayed into them inherently thus making a frame that much more transparent from what I can tell.
From what I gather, if you take a frame down to the basics, it all comes down to a give/take type relationship.
For instance the simple command, "Get me a glass of water while you're up." Could have multiple types of inlayed frames, due to tonality, voice inflection, and body language. (This is the reason texting is so hard to do sometimes, understanding framing will help with your text game a ton.) So lets add this to that phrase,
Your mom is bed ridden and you are taking care of her, you are in her room talking to her and you get up to go get some grapes.... she says it in a very subordinate frame that implies "taking pity" on her. It's not authoritative and thus puts you in control. Although you are likely to get her a glass of water regardless of what tone she uses or whether or not she uses an authoritative framing position, the fact that she conveys a "take pity on me" atitude and tonality puts her in control, because she is subconsiously pulling at your soft spot and you don't notice.
Take that same line, "Get me a glass of water while you're up" and apply it to a bar scenario, you and the dudes are chillaxin, sippin on some, and you are tired of beer, you want some water, but you pinned in.... a buddy is gonna go to the bathroom.... you say in a very subordinate frame "get me some water" and they are likely to respond favorably since you arent taking an authoritative stance.
Of course this all goes down to how you grew up. Some people have grown up being very submissive (like myself) and have had to break the cycle. Of course you have to be able to recognize that in which you intend to break. Constantly being in a subordinate, submissive frame is what is typically called, "Being Beta".
Just as being in a authoritative, dominate frame makes you alpha.
I think, I haven't tested yet, that it doesn't matter what type of frame it is as long as it is the dominant version of it. I think every frame has an authoritative side, and a subordinant side as a fundamental law to negative/positive theories. For every action there is an opposite and equal reaction.... Just some are beta moves and some are alpha. Which ones are you exhibiting?
Wednesday, February 6, 2008
Frames
I have been studying frames and framing as well as more inner game stuff as of late.
Framing is oddly intriguing, and I feel I don't fully grasp the concepts behind it. Or maybe I do grasp the basics... just not the advanced stuff.... I always try and get ahead of myself.
I'll post more about my observations later.
Update
***Update***
FClosed HBSister last night. That was a freakin, weird ordeal.
The whole night we are vibing sexually and flirting back and forth. Kissing, making out, and so on... Later that night we get back to her place, get into bed and things start to heat up. We start touching I get hard, and pull out the Kung Fu penis, she responds by sucking my finger and dry humping me, then she rolls over and starts to watch the movie again. I know you guys don't want to hear this but for this stories sake, deal with it. By this point I of course have a wood thats about to bust out of the boxers, and she just stopped. Ok thats fine, she beat me to the punch that time, no worries, right? Wrong. I lose the tent Im pitchin.
We start making out again, I'm poking her in the ass, rubbing her pussy through her shorts, and sucking on her titty...... she stops again.... no tensing, no warning ... just puts the breaks on. Rolls over and..... continues to watch the movie..... I again... lose erection. God damnit I am closing this one tonight if I have to die trying.
Just as quickly as she turns it off, she turned it BACK ON, rolled over on top of me and begins to dry hump again.... Originally I would speculate that shes maybe a virgin... but she has a kid. I get wood, and say fuck it... caveman this shit. I flip her off me, and get on top of her, she likes it. She likes me getting forceful.. I think awesome I finally get to play, "Just the tip, just for a little to see how it feels." ..... WRONG! She clams up, watches the movie and I AGAIN lose erection.... Ok....
One more time, by this point Im getting fed up. By this point we have dry humped for about 2 hours.... Im to the point where I am almost rubbed raw.... this shit sucks... Im thinkin possibly a BJ at this point, not likely though.
Again, she rolls back ontop of me, and starts going at it.... Shirt is off. Houston we have nipple suction. And once again, we have lift off. Things are going swimmingly.. Pants come off, since Im getting rubbed raw, both hers and mine. and just as quickly as it started... it ends... shes off, watching the movie, and I once again..... lose the erection.
NOW I am COMPLETELY turned off. I could care less...I have it in my mind that I am not gonna hit it tonight. At this point I didn't think Jessica Alba and Jessica Simpson making out could make me pop wood. Im sore as shit, completely turned off despite the bitchin body on top of me, and I am rapidly developing a case of blue balls. She initiates once again, I dont respond.
I watch the movie, she tries harder, still no response. After about 30 more minutes of no response she starts biting me.... it fucking hurts.... I hate biting. So I pull her hair. MIKEY LIKES! She totally responds to that. Holy hell.... bitch if I would have known you were kinky then I would have skipped the pleasantries and just stuck it in your ass. .... Damn.
I pull hair, and actually semi get turned on because of this.... normally this IS the creme de la creme of my sexual wishes.... I love pulling hair, smackin asses, and being rough and I am pretty good at filtering the girls sexual style through questions ive asked before, but she didnt let anything be known to me beforehand. What a whore.
To this point I have gotten and lost my erection 6+ times within 3 hours. I dont know about you guys, but after 2 hours it is extremely hard for me to continue to function if I have maintained sexual activity with no break. This is fucking pushing it... Finally.... the tip goes in. Great. Shes on top and riding it. I flip her over and hit it missionary style.... she pushes me off and gets on her knees....
BUT before she does that she does something weird, like touching herself or something....??? I lose my focus... I start picking up ambient noise in the background... the part of the movie was I now pronounce you chuck and larry, and the part was when the guy was stuck in the chimney thing... and they were fighting.... HILARIOUS.... but not good for maintaining wood as your hitting it from behind.... I have to stop I cant fucking concentrate.
Fellas.... not my finest moment.... but god damit with what I had to go through for this one, Im counting this one as a close, fuck what ya'll say.
HBmagiceye and I have a day 2 set up. Awesome. I didn't think anything was working out really, so I pushed her off. She came back. Weird.
/***Update***
Lessons.... fuck what they want... I should lead and they should tell me as I am getting what I want, what they want.
Theres a reason they say "In the event that the oxygen masks drop, put yours on first." Even before children.
70 Sets
I decided to keep track of my next 70 sets for three reasons:
1.I need to start evaluating my previous sets better. 2. I need to start keeping track of things in general. and 3. 70 is a requirement to get into the Austin thingy. Here are my first 3.
1. Per the stylelife challenge, I had to geniunly compliment 4 women. Style said I could use people I know.... but wheres the fun in that. I consider this all 1 because it was a SLA thing and really I didnt do anything but fullfill the mission. I had a lazy day. First girl, Anna, had gorgeous green eyes.... absolutely stunning. I wish I would have "sarged" her..... hindsight. Second girl had a pretty artistic flare. Didn't get her name, but she had green eye shadow and green accessories to match. I normally dont like the grunged out hair look, number 3 had it. She wore it well, a little young but whatever. Girl 4, had a pretty eclectic sense of style, Totally mismatched, which was oddly cool. I realized I only remembered 1 of their names. I must work on that and continue to push all interactions. All but 1 of these was day game.
2. Set number 2 bombed horribly. I used a direct opener for the first time in a mixed 3 set. I met up with Persian Prince at Northpark and after lunch I noticed a cute blonde, HB7. I noticed as she walked over to her group after getting her food. While she was placing her order I actually had opened her in the line I had told her and another girl I was going to cut in front of them to grab a refill right quick. Hindsight is I should have sarged her there instead. BUT, I decided I wanted to use my direct opener, AND Persian Prince brought up a GRAND idea. Going direct on a group to just your target..... That'll be a toughy, but I'm down. Upon first glance I think it's three ladies but as I approach I notice 1 is a dude with really long hair. I didn't plan for this, but whatever. Im a PUA right? Fuck it.
Me: "ex-excuse me."
Her: Oh Hi
More stuttering and I finally get my opener out... I FTC WAY too soon, My transitions were sloppy, and I totally ignored everyone else, didnt make enough eye contact, looked away. I immediately get, " I have a boyfriend." I went in with an agenda. I came out with nothing. Note to self .... dont have an agenda next time. Halfway through the interaction I forget about sarging and actually listen to Andrew. I forgot the 2 female names... but Andrew wants to sky dive naked..... disturbing. This was embarrassing I thought. I was seated though and we all had a conversation, but this one, I thought, reminded of me when I first started..... This was a day set.
3. I am only counting real sets. There was someone with me that had asked me about framing so I showed them what I knew on a couple of sets. But this next set I am really proud of. HB8ish Is that what you'd give her, Afterlife? She was wearing blue pants. Nice ass from what I could tell. I am still on my direct opener kick. I get this one almost perfect. Still needs some work. I fudge a couple of lines, and I found out I am not prepared. It seems that this opener has had the same effect on both the sets I have used it on thus far. They stutter and cant come up with anything intresting because they are caught off gaurd. They have both blushed, so I need to rethink the type of transition I use. After a slight delay, I get things going again. Her brother is an attorney, and she loves fashion. She has a boyfriend too, so she wont give me her number out of respect to him, but she will give me her email. Hindsight, I only spent about 2 or 3 minutes in set so I definately needed more comfort before I try and get the number. I FTC at the right point, but again it needs a little more comfort next time around, and quite possibly a heart melter or other form of DHV. This was a day set.
4. Night starts off a little earlier than normal. Decide to meet up with Ca$h and Professor at Sherlocks earlier in the day. Vector texts me and says he and his little lady are rollin out too. Awesome! Haven't seen them in a while and she seems to be mad at me for some reason I still lub her though. I roll in alone, and REALLY have to piss. I live like about 40 minutes away and the Red Bull and water that I downed earlier is kicking in. (Red Bull is better than crack.... seriously.) As I hold my member, Professor texts, "Here, where you is?" I text back, "Holding myself and thinking of you."..... ok that last part is a lie, BUT I thought about it... youre lucky Professor.Find him, grab beer, the place is kinda dead, get an important call that I take ... 20 minutes later, I do some short sets, as we are waiting for Ca$h. Mostly sausage, so I assertively start my dominance routines, and Professor and I chat a bit about AI's we were getting. Most alpha guy there... Check. (Besides my wings of course, they kick ass, too. I like goin out with them, it always takes the pressure off.) I've wanted to analyze AI's a little bit more thouroughly as of recently, from what I can tell, is you have approximately 10 seconds to approach before they'll leave, if youre just standing there. If you don't approach before then, kiss that set good bye. They will also pivot their bodies alot. So if you are having a hard time identifying an AI then you have to look for pivoting. They pivot because they want to make sure that you are at least semi looking at them, could be other reasons, that was my first actual observation of AI's, as I never really thought about them before. The more you are in set, the more AI's you get, and those AI's will stay around. Place picks up a bit and I open my first girlie set of the night. Mixed 5 set 3 guys, 2 girls. Ask the "more alpha" guy if he knows that guys name from Datelines, To catch a predator... Chris something or other... The girls immediately offer their opinions. "It's on the tip of your tongue." some more banter, I decide I see a better 4 set approaching, 4 lovely ladies, I then....
5. Open them... Me: "HEY! You know it! I know you do."
Her: Know what?
Me:(Point to everyone I was just talking to including Professor who was coming back) We were trying to figure out what that guys last name from to catch a predator is.
HBChris Hanson: Why are you one of those sexual predators? (They all chime in)
Me: YES I am. Come here you. (HUG)
Them: (laughing) Me: no bet seriously I NEED to know this it's important.
Her: Hanson.
HBChris Hanson: I'm chris hanson.
Me: You look like em. (stick tongue out.) Professor comes in.
Me: Hanson... Chris Hanson (hands me a beer)(thanks buddy) Oh hey bro thanks, Guys this is Professor, Professor.... Um... I dont know who they are.
Girls: They intorduce themselves. (Except chris hanson.... she affirms her alter ego)
I turn and re engage the previous set
Me: Hey its hanson.
Them: some more talk. the girls: YES Hanson!
Me: Not the band *shake my head* Girls *laugh*
I turn back around. Prof then skillfully picks up the other 2 I wasnt really intrested in. A little banter back and forth between the 4 of us. As me and the other 2 girls were talking the other 2 try and leave, and TRY to pull them away, but I keep re-engaging because I saw that they were blowing their friends off for me... lol instant gratification. I then shoo them along as my wing is back and we have "grown up" things to talk about. 2 AI's. It's amazing, make the group laugh and get rises, that is the true AI magnet.
If you want AI's you can
1) naturually be good looking, or
2) make em laugh. All of them, guys included.
6. Ca$h texts me, "Here"........."Cool at the pool tables." We wait a bit.... talk.. wait..20 minutes later Im tired of waiting... seriously Ca$h did they have to frisk you at the door or something? Did they see that big honker of a thing you call a penis and just feel like they HAD to see it? WTH. Prof and I walk upstairs and finally see Ca$h walk in... He didn't see us and goes left... Damnit... Im not chasin em. Open up some more men sets in that area, that will later be used to assert more alphaness amounst that area. I think my opener for these 2 sets was.... "Dude, what the hell is that? (pointing at their drinks) One convo went like this. It was a miller lite..... piss.
Me: Thats like piss man.
Beta 1: It's what he got me man (pointing at his friend),
Me: It's ok man we can't all be perfect.... Where' your ladies I wanna hit on em?
Beta 1 and 2: Haha just us bro.... Me: Oh... damn... lol can I hit on you instead (start walking away)
Beta1: (pointing to Beta 2) him maybe.
Me: Righhht, ill catch up with ya'll later
Them: Later.
As I leave I see a 2 set eyeing me from the corner of my eyes..... Hindsight... I should have opened.
7. Find Prof because they have a habit of walking in front of me... and I have a habit of opening sets as I am walking... so They keep walking and I get into sets.... this occurs pretty often. Prof leanrs to wlk behind me though lol .... Ca$h on the other hand never learned.... I will lose him throughout the rest of the night. Sorry buddy. Run into Ca$h and he takes a piss... then we push him into a set. He does extremly well, considering he's practically still a PU virgin.... We'll bust that cherry of yours soon man. It's getting crowded now.... and I LOVE when it gets crowded... It gives a very effective open like this validity... however this one could be used in general. (Misex 6 set 3 girls, 3 guys)
Me: hey man, did you just grab my ass?
Brother: Nah man, lol what the hell?
Me: no dude Im serious, you gotta watch these fuckers round here.. I just had my ass grabbed. (Ladies listening intently) and it wasn't like a faminine grab, it was like a firm grab
HBSister: Like this *grabs my ass*
Me: no, nothing like that... (in her ear) hold out you hand.
HBSister: (complies)
Me: (smack her hand) (in her ear) next ones on your ass if you do that again.
HBSister: (grabs my ass again)
Me: Thats its, bend over She then thrusts her ass into my crotch and I spank it.... Everyone looks haha. Some hugs in there.
Brother: Hey man thats my sister....
Me: Haha you didnt beat her up enough when you were younger then.
Brother: AHH haha its cool man
Me: Hey We totally love each other (hugs)
I figure now would be a good time to figure out how the rest of the group is related. lol that was close. After I find that out I get a text from Vector. Theyre there... I decide to eject at a high point, go meet up with them since I havent seen his sexy ass in a while, another beer, and try... notice I said try to assist with Ca$h's set.... (I ended up #closing and day 2ing HBSister later that night. As well as Isolating, kclosing and parading her.) I find him but he's already out of set, and standing next to Chris Hanson and company. I re-open by kicking Chris Hansons ass. Me, Ca$h and Prof are in set with them. I get some hugs in somewhere... I get the green light from the other 2 OB's that were trying to pull them away earlier. I do so with the intent of re-opening them later to close HBChris Hanson..... little do I know I never get the chance. By this point: Social Proof.... Check.
8. The last set I don't remember too much about.... by this time Vector is pretty toasty, and I see a walking Magic Eye puzzle. I point it out. it was a 3 set of ladies. We get into set and I know that my wing(s) wingmanship shined in that interaction.... I totally had isolation right there WITHOUT having to move. What more could I ask for? I had about 20 minutes with HBMagic Eye. I do remember that during the conversation she said that she liked my Magic Eye pick up line but she's heard them all... I said
Me: Baby, thats not a pick up line, and you havent heard this one. "Are your a parking ticket?" Her:.... um no.
Me: Cause baby youve got fine written all over you.
Her: hahaha never heard that one (she hugs me)
Me: I know uh.
I end up #closing her as they leave. .... Not a strong close I think, but we'll see what happens. Lessons for the night....... Focus on comfort material and transitioning more. My comfort was decent, but it needs to be better, and my transitioning needs to be flawless......
Opening, Check.
Attraction.. Check.
By the way .... I have a bet with... I think Afterlife or Fenix..... I am supposed to get a lay by my 7th set. I think, I may have accomplished that with the 7th set..... Too soon to tell. Ill keep you posted on the day 2. I totally didn't mean for it to happen that way
9. HBBTstripper was #closed at cowboys. While being a wallflower, I actually made an observation. I had noticed this actually several times before this night and this was actually the first time I had verbalized anything.
The observation was that you can always tell whether a girl is a stripper, was a stripper, or wants to be one, by the way she dances to rock songs. Rock if a girl can shake that ass to led zepplin, van halen, aerosmith, or (insert favorite rock group here) then you can damn well bet she's got something to do with taking clothes off for money, or at very least has thought about it.
With that observation I state to the fellas, and then point out all the girls dancing. Most of them danced like white guys normally dance..... except HBBTstripper. She was shakin it with the best of 'em. I had to therefore ask, you know, to prove myself correct in my assumptions.
Me: So what club do you dance at?
Her: What?
Me: You heard me, dont play coy.... what club?
Her: Are you calling me a stripper?
Me: If you perfer to be called that.
Her: *shocked look* *hits me*
Me: I'll take that as a yes.
Her: *hits me* I turn around and walk off. I later #close her, I actually had to be pushed to close.....go figure. Thanks guys for that. Day 2 is pending. This is a weekday day 2 girl since she dances and works at a bar.
10. Later that same night PicturePerfect gets opened by a Calista Flockhart look-a-like. Her ensuing friend leaves for a bit, but then comes back... followed by some guy. I wing. This is a rare occurance....
Usually I don't think I "wing" on a regular basis. So I play the "next shiney object" game. and I keep it up for about 20 to 30 min. I go "dance" with the girl OB .... the guy follows and stands there and watches as I dance with his girl, and just to clarify... I dont dance. As a matter of fact I play "lets run into as many people on the dance floor as possible". Thats my idea of fun.
So we do that.... of course, its near closing time and there are only about 8 couples dancing.... I dont think its obvious we are criss-crossing the dance floor just to run into someone new. Its fun, we both have fun and she gives me several IOI's... although I don't know what they are... I forgot. The next shiney game is not to be played if you plan on insta-dating, or bouncing.... If you are winging you also really need to have good solid game throughout to truly be beneficial to your wing, should he decide to bounce and whatnot.
I #close her, thinking we weren't bouncing and really had no intention of continuing conversation..... But then we bounce... The rest of the night didn't go to well. my target was on her phone the entire time. Extremely hard for me to do much. I didn't pre-empt a whole hell of alot, and therefor fucked up a very good shot at an SNL.... if thats what we wanted. They turn out to be under 21.... and a little weird. PP and I both noticed it, but couldn't really pin-point anything. He thinks it's because they had never experienced anything like us.... he may be right... may be right indeed. I've talked to her several times since that night.... shes still crazy.
11. I am going to school to become a parallegal. Well, i contacted the president of the parallegal club. Just as luck would have it, most parallegals are women. Thats awesome, I definately wanna be in this club then..... if they're hot. I call her up. Ring ring
Her: Hello?
Me: well hello there.
Her: haha hi.
Me: Hi, im Finesse and I was calling bout the parallegal club. blah blah blah. her: why do you want to join? Me: Im all about networking.
Her: me too, i swear by it.
Me: thats awesome... You know... I dont really tell people this... BUT I am actually a member of a super secret undergroup lair of seduction artists that specialize in enhancing skills to be able to network...... and seduce women. Are you seduced yet?
Her: Doooo What?
Me: Its true. I swear it.
Her: hahahahahah OMG
Me: I like Michael Jackson, do you?
Her: Love him.
Me: Thats good... cause Ive totally been on this 80's music kick. Just so ya know.
blah blah blah ...
that bout rounds up the attraction material. I build a little comfort as well in there and just shortly after the michael jackson schpill.
Just things Ive "noticed" about her and things about me. Of course I already have her number. but she myspace closes me.